哭笑不得

• ピンイン: kū xiào bù dé
• 漢字の分解: 哭 = cry; 笑 = 竹 (bamboo) + 夭 (young) — laugh; 不得 = cannot

意味

笑うに笑えず泣くに泣けない

Used when facing situations that are simultaneously funny and frustrating, or when someone's behavior is so ridiculous that you can't decide whether to be amused or annoyed. Common in everyday speech to express exasperation.

例文

1. 看到儿子用口红在墙上画画，她哭笑不得。
2. 他的解释让我哭笑不得，完全是强词夺理。
3. 这个乌龙事件让在场所有人都哭笑不得。

使い方ガイド

場面: daily life, anecdotes, complaints

トーン: exasperated

正しい言い方

• 他的回答让我哭笑不得。(His answer left me not knowing whether to laugh or cry.)
• 这种事真是让人哭笑不得。(This kind of thing really leaves you at a loss.)

避ける言い方

• 用哭笑不得形容单纯的悲伤或快乐情况。(Don't use this for purely sad or happy situations — it requires the awkward duality)

起源と歴史

Classical expression: 哭 (cry) + 笑 (laugh) + 不得 (cannot). Literally 'can neither cry nor laugh.'

文化的背景

世代: All ages

社会的背景: Universal