自来熟

• 拼音: zì lái shú
• 汉字拆解: 自来 (naturally comes) + 熟 (familiar) -> instantly familiar.

含义

Someone who quickly acts familiar with people they just met.

It can be charming and socially useful, or too much if boundaries are ignored. The phrase often describes outgoing people who skip the awkward phase.

例句

1. 他特别自来熟，刚见面就能聊半天。
2. 自来熟也要注意别越界。
3. 有个自来熟的同事，气氛轻松很多。

用法指南

语境: friends, social media, self-description

语气: light, mixed

正确说法

• 朋友很会破冰时说他自来熟。（Use it for someone who warms up fast.）

错误说法

• 用自来熟为冒犯隐私找借口。（Familiarity still needs boundaries.）

常见错误

• Treating it as always negative; it can be a social strength.

起源与历史

Colloquial phrase meaning familiarity comes naturally without much time.

文化背景

时代: 2010s-2020s

世代: Students, Gen Z, and young office workers

社会背景: Urban internet users

地区说明: Useful in describing Chinese group meals, dorms, and new workplace dynamics.