爱理不理

• ピンイン: ài lǐ bù lǐ
• 漢字の分解: 爱 = love/inclined; 理 = pay attention to; 不 = not

意味

そっけない／取り合わない

Describes an attitude of being aloof or showing minimal interest — responding only reluctantly or barely acknowledging someone. Often implies arrogance or displeasure.

例文

1. 自从那次吵架后，她对我一直爱理不理的。
2. 那个服务员态度很差，对顾客爱理不理的。
3. 他今天怎么爱理不理的？是不是遇到什么不开心的事了？

使い方ガイド

場面: everyday, complaint

トーン: critical

正しい言い方

• 他对同事总是爱理不理。(He's always dismissive toward his colleagues.)
• 别对客人爱理不理的，要热情点。(Don't be cold to guests — be more enthusiastic.)

避ける言い方

• 用'爱理不理'形容积极的态度 (Don't use 爱理不理 positively — it always has negative connotations)

起源と歴史

爱 here means 'to be inclined to' rather than 'love.' 理 means 'to pay attention.' The structure 爱…不… indicates doing something reluctantly or inconsistently.

文化的背景

世代: All ages

社会的背景: Universal