強がる

• Reading: つよがる
• Romaji: tsuyogaru
• Kanji breakdown: 強 (kyō/tsuyo) — strong, powerful
• Pronunciation: /tsɯ.jo.ɡa.ɾɯ/

Meaning

To pretend to be tough; to put on a brave front; to bluff; to act strong despite feeling otherwise.

A Group 1 (godan) intransitive verb formed from 強い (strong) with the suffix がる (to show signs of, to act as if). Describes behaviour where someone conceals vulnerability behind a facade of strength. Often used sympathetically, implying the speaker sees through the act and feels empathy.

Examples

1. 本当は辛いのに、彼はいつも強がっている。 He's really struggling inside, but he always acts tough.
2. 強がらないで、素直に助けを求めたほうがいい。 Instead of putting on a brave face, it's better to honestly ask for help.
3. 泣きそうなのに強がる姿が痛々しかった。 It was painful to watch him trying to act strong when he was on the verge of tears.

Usage Guide

Context: interpersonal, emotional situations, fiction

Tone: sympathetic

Origin & History

Formed from 強い (strong) plus the suffix がる, which expresses outward display of an emotion or quality. The がる suffix implies the display may not reflect the true inner state.

Cultural Context

Era: Modern

Generation: All ages

Social background: Universal