难为情

• 拼音: nán wéi qíng
• 汉字拆解: 难 = difficult; 为 = originally a pictograph of an elephant being led — to do, to act; 情 = 忄(heart) + 青(blue-green/clear) — feelings of the heart

含义

Embarrassed; awkward; to feel embarrassed or put in an awkward position.

Describes a feeling of awkwardness or embarrassment, often because of social pressure, face concerns, or being put on the spot. Can be used as an adjective (感到难为情) or to describe a situation (让人难为情). Frequently tied to social and cultural norms around face (面子).

例句

1. 当众出错之后，她感到十分难为情，恨不得找个地缝钻进去，一时说不出话来。
2. 他提出这个要求的时候，我真的很难为情，既不想拒绝，又不知道如何开口答应。
3. 在长辈面前被人当场揭穿撒谎，那种难为情的感觉令他久久无法平静下来。

用法指南

语境: social interactions, interpersonal relationships, face/mianzi culture, daily life

语气: self-conscious/apologetic

正确说法

• 朋友当着大家的面说出了我从未公开过的私事，那一刻我真的非常难为情，完全不知道该如何回应。(My friend revealed in front of everyone a personal matter I had never made public — at that moment I felt truly embarrassed and had absolutely no idea how to respond.)
• 不得不向从未谋面的人开口借钱，这种事情本身就令人十分难为情，实在是逼不得已才这么做的。(Having to ask someone you've never met for a loan is something inherently embarrassing; I genuinely had no choice but to do it.)

错误说法

• 把'难为情'用于描述客观困难而非情绪性尴尬 (难为情 specifically describes an emotional feeling of awkwardness or embarrassment — for objective difficulty or hardship, use 困难 or 难办)

起源与历史

难(difficult) + 为(for/because of) + 情(emotion/feeling/situation). Together meaning 'difficult to face emotionally' — a situation that is hard to handle without embarrassment

文化背景

世代: All ages

社会背景: Universal