迁就

• ピンイン: qiān jiù
• 漢字の分解: 迁 = 辶 + 千 (move/shift); 就 = 京 (capital/high) + 尤 (especially) (approach/go along with)

意味

（相手に）迎合して譲歩する／過度に合わせる

Carries a slightly negative connotation — implying an unwarranted concession or lowering of standards to please someone. Distinct from 照顾 (considerate care) or 配合 (cooperative coordination). Commonly used in parenting, management, and relationship contexts. Frequent in criticism of leniency or over-accommodation.

例文

1. 过度迁就孩子的不合理要求，长期下来会削弱其挫折承受能力，不利于其健全人格的形成。
2. 管理者不应一味迁就团队成员的情绪，在原则性问题上必须坚守立场，维护团队整体利益。
3. 她总是迁就对方，委屈自己的感受与需求，这种长期失衡的模式使这段关系逐渐走向破裂。

使い方ガイド

場面: parenting, relationships, management, criticism

トーン: critical

正しい言い方

• 教育改革不应迁就短视的功利心态，而应着眼于学生长远的综合素质培养与创新能力发展。(Educational reform should not yield to short-sighted utilitarian thinking, but should focus on the long-term development of students' comprehensive qualities and innovative capacity.)
• 谈判代表明确表示，在核心利益问题上不会作出任何迁就，双方必须在平等互利的基础上寻求共识。(The negotiating representative made clear that no concessions would be made on core interests and that both sides must seek common ground on the basis of equality and mutual benefit.)

避ける言い方

• 他迁就了一项好建议 — 迁就 implies yielding to unreasonable demands or lowering of standards; for accepting a good suggestion use 采纳/接受

起源と歴史

迁 (shift/move) + 就 (accommodate/go along with) — to shift oneself to go along with another; to accommodate by yielding

文化的背景

世代: All ages

社会的背景: Universal