Talking to
Slang Term
BritishAmericanAustralian
★★★★★ Very Common
Casual
含义: In early communication stage before dating (modern dating).
处于约会前的联络阶段（现代恋爱用语）。
En la fase de comunicación previa a salir juntos (lenguaje moderno de citas).
付き合う前の連絡を取り合っている段階（現代の恋愛用語）。
사귀기 전 연락을 주고받는 단계 (현대 연애 용어).
'Talking to' someone means you're in communication with romantic potential but haven't started dating. 'We're talking' is pre-relationship stage. Can last indefinitely in app culture.
'Talking to'某人意味着双方在保持联系，有发展恋爱关系的可能性，但还没有正式约会。'We're talking'指交往前的暧昧阶段。在社交软件文化中，这个阶段可能持续很长时间。
'Talking to' alguien significa que estáis en contacto con potencial romántico pero aún no habéis empezado a salir. 'We're talking' indica una fase previa a la relación. En la cultura de las aplicaciones de citas, esta fase puede durar indefinidamente.
「Talking to」は恋愛の可能性を秘めた連絡を取り合っている状態だが、まだ正式に付き合ってはいない。「We're talking」は交際前の段階を指す。マッチングアプリ文化では、この段階が長期間続くこともある。
누군가와 'talking to' 한다는 것은 연애 가능성이 있는 상태로 연락을 주고받고 있지만 아직 본격적으로 사귀지 않는 것을 의미합니다. 'We're talking'은 연애 전 단계입니다. 앱 문화에서는 이 단계가 무한히 지속될 수 있습니다.
例句
- We're just talking. 我们只是在聊而已Solo estamos hablandoまだ連絡を取り合ってるだけだよ우리는 그냥 연락하는 사이야.
- How long have you been talking? 你们聊了多久了？¿Cuánto tiempo lleváis hablando?どのくらい連絡取り合ってるの？얼마나 오래 연락하고 지냈어?
- We've been talking for months. 我们已经聊了好几个月了Llevamos meses hablandoもう何ヶ月も連絡を取り合ってる몇 달째 연락하고 있어.
发音
/ˈtɔːkɪŋ tuː/
用法指南
语境: pre-dating, texting, early stage
语气: casual, ambiguous
✓ 正确说法
- Talking在聊hablando連絡を取り合っている연락하는 중
- Talking to和某人在聊hablando con〜と連絡中~와 연락하는 중
- We're talking我们在聊estamos hablando私たちは連絡を取り合っている우리 연락하는 중이야
✗ 错误说法
- Pre-dating—not yet official还没正式在一起，处于约会前阶段Fase previa a salir, aún no es oficial付き合う前の段階で、まだ正式な関係ではない사귀기 전 단계—아직 공식적이지 않음
常见错误
- Stage before dating, not during
起源与历史
Modern dating stage between matching/meeting and actually dating. 'Talking' is the extended texting period that may or may not lead to dates.
词源: From talking (communicating) as relationship stage
最早记录: Modern dating, 2010s
文化背景
Era: Modern dating
Generation: Younger generations
Social background: Universal
Pop culture: Dating app culture
Regional notes: Universal modern dating.
变体
TalkingTalking to
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