ヤリモク
含义: Someone whose only purpose for using a dating app or attending social events is to hook up — solely interested in sex.
A compound of ヤる (vulgar for 'to do it/have sex') and 目的 (purpose/objective), ヤリモク is a major red flag term in Japanese dating culture. Women frequently warn each other about ヤリモク users on dating apps. Identifying and avoiding ヤリモク is a common topic in dating advice content.
例句
- あの人ヤリモクだから気をつけてね。 那个人就是约炮目的,你小心点。Ese va solo a por sexo, ten cuidado.저 사람 ヤリモク이니까 조심해.
- ヤリモクかどうか見分ける方法ってあるの? 有没有什么方法能看出对方是不是约炮目的的?¿Hay alguna forma de saber si alguien va solo a por sexo?ヤリモク인지 아닌지 구별하는 방법이 있어?
- 初回から家に誘ってくるやつは大体ヤリモク。 第一次见面就邀请去家里的人,基本都是约炮目的。Los que te invitan a su casa en la primera cita suelen ir solo a por sexo.처음 만나자마자 집으로 부르는 놈은 대체로 ヤリモク야.
发音
/ja.ɾi.mo.kɯ/
用法指南
语境: close friends, dating app discussion
语气: warning, critical
✓ 正确说法
- ヤリモクっぽい人にはすぐブロックしたほうがいい。 (You should block people who seem like they're just looking to hook up.)看起来是约炮目的的人最好马上拉黑。(遇到看起来是约炮目的的人,最好立刻拉黑。)Deberías bloquear directamente a los que parecen ir solo a por sexo.ヤリモク 같은 사람은 바로 차단하는 게 나아. (몸이 목적인 것 같은 사람은 바로 차단하는 게 좋다.)
- プロフィールちゃんと読まない人はヤリモクが多い。 (People who don't properly read your profile are often just looking for hookups.)不好好看资料的人大多是约炮目的。(不认真看个人资料的人往往是约炮目的。)Los que ni se leen tu perfil suelen ir solo a por sexo.프로필을 제대로 안 읽는 사람은 ヤリモク가 많아. (프로필을 제대로 안 읽는 사람은 몸이 목적인 경우가 많다.)
✗ 错误说法
- 面と向かって「ヤリモクでしょ」は喧嘩になる (Saying 'you're just looking for sex' to someone's face will cause a fight)当面说'你就是约炮目的吧'会引发争吵(当面对人说'你就是冲着约炮来的吧'会引起冲突)Decirle a alguien a la cara «solo vas a por sexo» acaba en pelea면전에서 「ヤリモクでしょ」라고 하면 싸움이 된다 (상대에게 직접 '몸이 목적이지?'라고 말하면 싸움이 벌어진다)
常见错误
- Using ヤリモク casually outside of private friend conversations — it's a crude term that should only be used in trusted company
起源与历史
Compound of ヤる (slang for having sex) and 目的 (mokuteki, purpose). Became prevalent with the rise of dating apps in the 2010s as a warning label for users with purely sexual intentions.
文化背景
Era: 2010s, dating app era
Generation: 20s-30s
Social background: Dating app culture
Regional notes: Used nationwide, especially among women discussing dating app safety. A key term in modern Japanese dating vocabulary.
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