Relationships & Dating

Japanese slang for love, dating, friendships, and social dynamics

简介

Japanese dating culture has spawned a rich vocabulary of slang. From 沼る (falling into an obsession) to 匠わせ (subtle flexing about a relationship), these words capture the drama and excitement of modern Japanese romance.

This chapter covers slang related to relationships, dating, and social dynamics in Japan.

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本章全部Japanese Slang（79）

• 匂わせ Subtly hinting at a romantic relationship on social media without explicitly ...
• マッチングアプリ A dating app used to find romantic partners, such as Pairs, Tapple, or with.
• 出会い系 A hookup or dating site/app, often carrying a slightly shady or sleazy connot...
• 脈あり Having a chance with someone romantically; showing signs of mutual interest o...
• 脈なし Having no chance with someone romantically; no signs of interest or attractio...
• フラれる To get rejected or dumped by someone, whether after confessing feelings or du...
• 告白 A love confession — directly telling someone you have romantic feelings for t...
• 両思い Mutual feelings between two people — both parties like each other romantically.
• 片思い One-sided love or an unrequited crush — having romantic feelings for someone ...
• 束縛 Being possessive or controlling in a romantic relationship, such as checking ...
• ヤキモチ Jealousy in a romantic context — feeling envious or insecure when your partne...
• 浮気 Cheating on a romantic partner or having an affair — being unfaithful in a re...
• 二股 Two-timing — secretly dating or being involved with two people at the same time.
• 好きバレ When your crush finds out that you like them, usually before you intended to ...
• 友達以上恋人未満 More than friends but not yet lovers — a relationship that has surpassed frie...
• いい感じ Things are going well between two people — there's a good vibe or positive ch...
• 付き合う To go out with someone — to officially start dating or be in a romantic relat...
• 別れる To break up with someone — to end a romantic relationship.
• 元カレ Ex-boyfriend — a former male romantic partner.
• 元カノ Ex-girlfriend — a former female romantic partner.
• 復縁 Getting back together with an ex — reconciling and resuming a romantic relati...
• 未練 Lingering attachment or unresolved feelings for an ex or a past situation — t...
• 草食系 Herbivore type — a person (usually male) who is passive, gentle, and unassert...
• 肉食系 Carnivore type — a person who is aggressive, bold, and proactive in romantic ...
• ロールキャベツ系 Roll cabbage type — someone who looks gentle and passive on the outside but i...
• 小悪魔 Little devil — a flirtatious, teasing person (usually female) who charms othe...
• 天然 Naturally airheaded or innocently clueless — someone who says or does funny t...
• 壁ドン Slamming one's hand against a wall to corner someone romantically — a dramati...
• 顎クイ Tilting someone's chin up with your hand to look into their eyes — a romantic...
• 頭ポンポン Patting someone on the head affectionately — a romantic or caring gesture oft...
• ハグ A hug — embracing someone, typically in a romantic or emotional context.
• チュー A kiss — a cute, casual way to say kissing, often used playfully.
• イチャイチャ Being lovey-dovey or physically flirty with a partner — cuddling, touching, a...
• ラブラブ Madly in love — describing a couple who is extremely affectionate and obvious...
• お揃い Matching items — especially couples wearing matching outfits, accessories, or...
• 記念日 An anniversary or commemorative date — especially monthly or yearly relations...
• サプライズ A surprise — especially a planned romantic gesture like a surprise birthday p...
• 親友 A best friend or very close friend — someone you trust deeply and share a str...
• マブダチ A true, real best friend — slang for someone who is genuinely your closest, m...
• 合コン A group blind date or social mixer — an organized gathering where single men ...
• 街コン A large-scale matchmaking event organized in a city or neighborhood where str...
• 婚活 Marriage hunting — the active pursuit of finding a marriage partner through o...
• 恋活 Actively seeking a romantic partner — similar to 婚活 but focused on finding a ...
• 好き避け Avoiding someone precisely because you have feelings for them — acting cold o...
• ツレ A close friend, partner, or companion — can refer to a romantic partner or a ...
• 相方 One's partner or other half — used for a romantic partner, a best friend, or ...
• ワンナイト A one-night stand — a sexual encounter with someone you don't intend to see a...
• セフレ Friends with benefits — a sexual relationship without romantic commitment.
• ヤリモク Someone whose only purpose for using a dating app or attending social events ...
• 本命 The one you truly like — your serious romantic interest, as opposed to casual...
• キープ Keeping someone as a backup romantic option — stringing someone along while p...
• 写真詐欺 Photo fraud — when someone looks significantly different in person from their...
• スペック A person's specs or stats — their measurable attributes like income, height, ...
• 3高 The three highs — the ideal male partner criteria from the bubble era: tall (...
• 推せる彼氏 A boyfriend worth 'stanning' — a partner so attractive, talented, or charming...
• 沼彼 A boyfriend you're obsessively addicted to — someone you can't stop thinking ...
• ダメ男 A no-good guy or loser boyfriend — a man who is unreliable, unemployed, unfai...
• 距離感バグ Having a 'bugged' sense of personal distance — someone who gets too close too...
• 病み垢 A 'dark account' — a separate social media account used for posting depressiv...
• メッセ A message — abbreviation commonly used for messages exchanged on dating apps ...
• プロフィール写真 Profile picture — specifically one's photo on a dating app or social media, w...
• 愚痴垢 A venting account — a separate social media account dedicated to complaining ...
• メンヘラ彼女 An emotionally unstable girlfriend — a partner with mental health issues who ...
• ヤンデレ彼氏 An obsessively possessive boyfriend — a partner whose love turns into control...
• 相互フォロー Mutual follow — when two people follow each other on social media, often seen...
• 推し婚 Marrying someone who resembles or reminds you of your oshi (favorite idol/cha...
• 犬系彼氏 A puppy-like boyfriend — a partner who is loyal, affectionate, eager to pleas...
• 猫系彼女 A cat-like girlfriend — a partner who is independent, aloof, moody, and affec...
• ペアーズ Pairs — Japan's largest and most well-known dating app, sometimes used generi...
• マッチング Getting matched on a dating app — the moment when two users mutually indicate...
• 顔合わせ The first face-to-face meeting — specifically when people who connected onlin...
• フェードアウト Gradually ghosting someone — slowly reducing contact and fading out of a rela...
• ソロ活 Solo activities — the lifestyle trend of actively enjoying things alone by ch...
• お持ち帰り Taking someone home — a euphemism for bringing someone back to your place for...
• ガチ告 A serious, genuine love confession — as opposed to a joke confession or a cas...
• 地雷女 A landmine woman — someone who seems fine on the surface but has hidden red f...
• あざと可愛い Calculatedly cute — being charming or adorable in a clearly deliberate and st...
• サブい彼氏 A lame or cringy boyfriend — a partner whose jokes, behavior, or fashion sens...
• 重い Too clingy or emotionally heavy in a relationship — being overly intense, nee...