Lose One's Cool
Meaning: To become angry or agitated, losing composure
'Cool' here means calm composure and self-control. To 'lose your cool' means that composure breaks down—you become visibly angry, flustered, or emotionally uncontrolled. It's often seen as a failure to maintain the dignified front you normally present.
Literal meaning: Losing your calm, composed state
Examples
- He lost his cool during the interview and stormed out. 他在面试时失去了冷静,愤然离场Perdió los estribos durante la entrevista y se fue dando un portazo面接中に冷静さを失って怒って出て行った그는 면접 도중 냉정을 잃고 화를 내며 나가버렸다.
- Don't lose your cool—stay calm and professional. 别失去冷静——保持冷静和专业No pierdas la calma, mantente tranquilo y profesional冷静さを失うな——落ち着いてプロらしくいろ냉정을 잃지 마—침착하고 프로답게 행동해.
- She never loses her cool, even under pressure. 即使在压力下她也从不失态Ella nunca pierde la compostura, ni siquiera bajo presiónプレッシャーの下でも彼女は決して取り乱さない그녀는 압박 속에서도 절대 냉정을 잃지 않는다.
- I completely lost my cool when they blamed me unfairly.当他们不公平地指责我时,我完全失去了冷静Perdí totalmente la calma cuando me culparon injustamente不当に責められたとき完全に冷静さを失った부당하게 비난받았을 때 나는 완전히 이성을 잃었다.
Pronunciation
/luːz wʌnz kuːl/
Usage Guide
Context: anger, stress, confrontation
Tone: descriptive, often self-critical
✓ Do Say
- Don't lose your cool.别失去冷静No pierdas la calma冷静を失うなよ냉정을 잃지 마.
- I lost my cool.我失去了冷静Perdí la calmaつい取り乱した나도 모르게 흥분했어.
- She never loses her cool.她从不失去冷静Ella nunca pierde la calma彼女はいつも冷静だ그녀는 절대 냉정을 잃지 않아.
✗ Don't Say
- Very common expression非常常用的表达Expresión muy común非常に一般的な表現매우 흔히 쓰이는 표현
- Can be self-deprecating when used about yourself用于描述自己时可以是自嘲Puede ser autodespreciativo cuando se usa sobre uno mismo自分について使うと自虐的になることがある자신에 대해 쓸 때는 자조적인 뉘앙스가 될 수 있다
Common Mistakes
- Opposite is 'keep your cool' not 'keep your warm'
- It's 'lose ONE'S cool' not 'lose THE cool'
Origin & History
The phrase emerged from American jazz culture in the 1950s, where 'cool' meant calm, composed, sophisticated. To 'lose your cool' was to lose that cultivated detachment. The expression entered mainstream English by the 1960s.
Etymology: From jazz culture's 'cool' (composed, unflappable)
First recorded: 1950s American jazz culture
Cultural Context
Era: 1950s onwards
Generation: All ages
Social background: Universal
Pop culture: Jazz culture origins; Common in sports commentary
Regional notes: American origin, now universal.
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