Going steady
Meaning: In an exclusive relationship, dating seriously (traditional).
'Going steady' is a somewhat old-fashioned term for being in an exclusive relationship. It implies commitment beyond casual dating but before engagement. Still used, often with affectionate nostalgia.
Examples
- They've been going steady for months. 他们已经正式交往好几个月了Llevan meses saliendo en serioあの二人はもう何ヶ月も付き合っている그 둘은 몇 달째 사귀고 있어.
- Are you two going steady? 你们俩在正式交往吗?¿Estáis saliendo en serio?あなたたち付き合ってるの?너희 둘 사귀는 거야?
- We're going steady now. 我们现在正式交往了Ahora estamos saliendo en serio僕たち今付き合ってるよ우리 지금 사귀고 있어.
Pronunciation
/ˈgəʊɪŋ ˈstɛdi/
Usage Guide
Context: relationships, dating, commitment
Tone: somewhat old-fashioned, warm
✓ Do Say
- Going steady正式交往salir en serio付き合っている사귀고 있어
- Went steady曾经交往salió en serio付き合っていた사귀었어
✗ Don't Say
- Sounds dated to younger people年轻人觉得这个说法过时了Suena anticuado para los jóvenes若い人には古臭く聞こえる젊은 세대에게는 구식으로 들림
Common Mistakes
- Exclusive dating, not engaged
Origin & History
American English that spread to Britain, from the idea of moving steadily toward commitment. Popular in the 1950s-60s, it remains understood even if somewhat dated.
Etymology: From steady (stable) progress in relationship
First recorded: American 1940s-50s, spread to UK
Cultural Context
Era: 1950s-60s peak, still understood
Generation: Older generations
Social background: Universal
Pop culture: Grease; 50s nostalgia
Regional notes: Understood everywhere, sounds traditional.
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