Burning bridges
의미: Destroying relationships or connections in a way that can't be undone.
Used when someone does something that permanently damages a relationship or closes off an opportunity. Quitting a job in a dramatic way, insulting a former friend publicly, or betraying a business partner all count as burning bridges. The universal advice in American culture: never burn bridges.
예문
- Don't burn bridges with your old boss — you might need a reference someday. 别跟前老板撕破脸——说不定哪天还需要推荐信呢。No quemes puentes con tu antiguo jefe: puede que algún día necesites una carta de recomendación.前の上司との関係を壊さないで——いつか推薦状が必要になるかもしれないから。전 상사와의 관계를 망치지 마 — 언젠가 추천서가 필요할 수도 있으니까.
- He burned every bridge on his way out of the company. 他离开公司的时候把每一段关系都搞砸了。Se marchó de la empresa quemando todos los puentes a su paso.彼は会社を辞めるときにあらゆる人間関係を壊して出て行った。그는 회사를 떠나면서 모든 인간관계를 다 태워버렸다.
- She regrets burning bridges with her college friends over something so trivial. 她后悔为了那么点小事就和大学朋友断绝了来往。Ella se arrepiente de haber roto con sus amigos de la universidad por algo tan trivial.彼女はあんなくだらないことで大学時代の友人との関係を壊したことを後悔している。그녀는 그렇게 사소한 일로 대학 친구들과의 관계를 끊은 것을 후회하고 있다.
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사용 가이드
맥락: careers, relationships, advice
어조: cautionary, regretful
✓ 올바른 표현
- Don't burn any bridges.不要自断后路。No quemes ningún puente.人間関係を壊さないように。(Don't burn any bridges.)다리를 태우지 마.
- He burned a lot of bridges.他把很多关系都搞砸了。Él quemó muchos puentes.彼はたくさんの人間関係を壊した。(He burned a lot of bridges.)그는 많은 다리를 태웠어.
✗ 잘못된 표현
- Sometimes burning bridges is necessary and healthy — toxic relationships may need to be permanently ended有时候断绝关系是必要且健康的——有毒的关系可能需要被彻底了结A veces quemar puentes es necesario y sano: las relaciones tóxicas puede que necesiten cortarse definitivamente時には関係を断つことが必要で健全な場合もある——有害な関係は永久に終わらせるべきこともある때로는 다리를 태우는 것이 필요하고 건강한 일이다 — 독성 관계는 영구적으로 끝내야 할 수도 있다
기원과 역사
From military strategy — ancient armies would burn bridges behind them to prevent retreat (committing fully to the advance) or to stop enemies from following. The metaphor of destroying your path back has been used in American English since the 1800s.
문화적 배경
Era: 1800s-present
Generation: All ages
Social background: Universal
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