Shooting your shot
Significado: Making a bold attempt to express romantic interest in someone, despite the risk of rejection.
Shooting your shot means putting yourself out there — sending that first message, asking someone out, or making your feelings known. The basketball metaphor implies that you miss 100% of the shots you don't take. It celebrates courage in the face of possible rejection and is often used as encouragement ('just shoot your shot!').
Ejemplos
- I'm gonna shoot my shot and ask her to prom. 我要鼓起勇气邀请她去毕业舞会。Voy a lanzarme y pedirle que venga al baile de fin de curso conmigo.思い切ってプロムに誘ってみるよ。용기 내서 그녀를 프롬에 초대해 볼 거야.
- He shot his shot with that girl at the coffee shop and actually got her number. 他在咖啡店向那个女生出手了,居然真的拿到了号码。Se lanzó con aquella chica de la cafetería y consiguió su número de verdad.彼はカフェであの子にアタックして、本当に番号もらえたんだよ。그가 카페에서 저 여자한테 과감하게 다가갔는데 진짜로 번호를 받았어.
- You should just shoot your shot — the worst she can say is no. 你就大胆去啊——最坏的结果不过是被拒绝。Deberías lanzarte sin más — lo peor que puede decir es que no.当たって砕けろだよ——断られるのが最悪のケースでしょ。그냥 한번 도전해 봐 — 최악의 경우가 거절이잖아.
Pronunciación
Guía de uso
Contexto: dating, encouragement, social media, everyday conversation
Tono: encouraging, bold
✓ Correcto
- Just shoot your shot, man.大胆去表白啊,兄弟。Lánzate, tío.思い切ってアタックしなよ。그냥 한번 해봐, 임마.
- I shot my shot and it worked!我出手了,而且成功了!Me lancé y ¡funcionó!アタックしたらうまくいったよ!도전했더니 성공했어!
✗ Incorrecto
- Don't repeatedly 'shoot your shot' with someone who has clearly said no — that crosses into harassment territory不要反复对已经明确拒绝你的人'shoot your shot'——那就变成骚扰了No te 'lances' repetidamente con alguien que ha dicho claramente que no — eso entra en territorio de acosoはっきり断られた相手に何度も「アタック」し続けないこと——それはハラスメントになる명확히 거절한 상대에게 반복적으로 '도전'하지 말 것 — 그것은 괴롭힘의 영역으로 넘어감
Origen e historia
From basketball terminology where 'shooting your shot' means taking a scoring attempt. Applied to dating since the 2010s, popularized on social media as encouragement to be bold in romantic pursuits.
Contexto cultural
Era: 2010s onwards
Generation: Millennials, Gen Z
Social background: Universal
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