Old lady
Meaning: One's wife or long-term girlfriend.
In American slang, 'my old lady' doesn't mean an elderly woman — it means 'my wife' or 'my girlfriend.' It's casual and slightly rough around the edges, more common in working-class speech and biker culture. Despite sounding disrespectful, it's usually used with affection. The female equivalent is 'old man' for a husband or boyfriend.
Examples
- My old lady is making her famous chili tonight — you should come over. 我家那位今晚要做她拿手的辣椒酱——你过来吃吧。Mi parienta va a hacer su famoso chili esta noche — deberías venir.うちのカミさんが今夜、自慢のチリを作るんだ——遊びに来なよ。우리 마누라가 오늘 밤 자기 특제 칠리를 만드는데 — 놀러 와.
- I gotta check with the old lady before I commit to the fishing trip. 去钓鱼之前我得先问问我家那位。Tengo que consultarlo con la parienta antes de comprometerme con la excursión de pesca.釣りに行く前にカミさんに確認しないと。낚시 여행에 가겠다고 하기 전에 마누라한테 확인해봐야 해.
- His old lady has been with him since high school. They're ride or die. 他家那位从高中就跟他在一起了。他们是生死相依的关系。Su parienta está con él desde el instituto. Son uña y carne.彼のカミさんは高校の頃からの付き合いだよ。二人は一蓮托生さ。그의 마누라는 고등학교 때부터 함께한 사이야. 둘은 죽이 맞는 사이지.
Pronunciation
Usage Guide
Context: casual male conversation, blue-collar settings
Tone: casual, affectionate
✓ Do Say
- My old lady is the best cook I know.我家那位是我认识的最会做饭的人。Mi parienta es la mejor cocinera que conozco.うちのカミさんは最高の料理人だよ。우리 마누라가 내가 아는 최고의 요리사야.
- Gotta ask the old lady first.得先问问我家那位。Tengo que preguntarle a la parienta primero.まずカミさんに聞かないと。먼저 마누라한테 물어봐야 해.
✗ Don't Say
- Many women dislike being called 'the old lady' — know your audience and your partner's preferences很多女性不喜欢被叫'the old lady'——要了解你的听众和伴侣的偏好A muchas mujeres no les gusta que las llamen así — conoce a tu público y las preferencias de tu pareja「old lady」と呼ばれるのを嫌がる女性も多い——相手と自分のパートナーの好みを把握しておくこと많은 여성이 'the old lady'라고 불리는 것을 싫어합니다 — 분위기와 파트너의 선호를 파악하세요
Origin & History
Used in American English since at least the mid-20th century, especially in working-class, biker, and military cultures. 'Old' doesn't refer to age but to the idea of a long-established, familiar partner.
Cultural Context
Era: Mid-20th century onward
Generation: Gen X and older
Social background: Working class
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