Lock it down
Meaning: To commit to a relationship and make it official — securing your partner before someone else does.
Lock it down means making a relationship exclusive and official. Friends might tell you to 'lock it down' when you're dating someone great — implying you should commit before they slip away. It treats the partner almost like a prize to be secured, which can be playful or slightly objectifying.
Examples
- Bro, she's amazing. You need to lock it down before somebody else does. 哥们,她太棒了。趁别人没下手之前赶紧拿下啊。Tío, ella es increíble. Tienes que atarla antes de que otro se la lleve.おい、彼女最高じゃん。誰かに取られる前にちゃんと付き合えよ。야, 그녀 대박이잖아. 누가 채 가기 전에 확실히 해.
- They've been dating for six months and he still hasn't locked it down. 他俩约会半年了,他还没正式确定关系。Llevan seis meses saliendo y él todavía no se ha comprometido.もう半年もデートしてるのに、まだ正式に付き合ってないのかよ。6개월째 사귀고 있는데 아직도 확실하게 안 했어.
- I knew she was special, so I locked it down and asked her to be my girlfriend. 我知道她很特别,所以我赶紧确定了关系,正式请她做我女朋友。Supe que era especial, así que lo oficialicé y le pedí que fuera mi novia.彼女が特別な人だってわかったから、すぐに正式に彼女にしたよ。그녀가 특별한 사람인 걸 알았기 때문에 바로 공식적으로 여자친구로 만들었어.
Pronunciation
Usage Guide
Context: dating advice, bro talk, social media
Tone: urgent, encouraging
✓ Do Say
- You should lock it down!你赶紧确定关系吧!¡Deberías oficializarlo!早く正式に付き合っちゃいなよ!빨리 확실히 해야지!
- He locked it down after the first month.他在第一个月就把关系确定了。Él lo oficializó después del primer mes.彼、1ヶ月で正式に付き合ったんだよ。그는 한 달 만에 확실하게 했어.
✗ Don't Say
- Pressuring someone to 'lock it down' before they're ready can backfire在对方还没准备好的时候催促'赶紧确定关系'可能会适得其反Presionar a alguien para que 'lo oficialice' antes de que esté preparado puede ser contraproducenteまだ準備ができていない相手に「早く決めろ」とプレッシャーをかけると逆効果になることがある준비가 안 된 사람에게 '확실히 하라'고 압박하면 역효과가 날 수 있다
Origin & History
Sports metaphor applied to relationships — like locking down a win or a defensive play. Became common dating slang in the 2010s, especially among younger Americans on social media.
Cultural Context
Era: 2010s
Generation: Millennials and Gen Z
Social background: Universal
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